Tbh I’ve learned that it’s not only up to you to accept and love yourself for who you are, but it’s also up to your partner. There is nothing more assuring in this world than your man letting you know you’re beautiful; letting you know your flaws are beautiful. A real man won’t think your private parts are gross. He will embrace your beauty even if it’s not ideal.
I discovered this with my boyfriend and he makes me feel like I’m absolutely perfect. The little flaws I think I have, he doesn’t see. He loves me and embraces exactly who I am and what my body looks like. It’s a beautiful thing (the love and acceptance a man can bring to you). And It’s also a beautiful thing to love yourself.
Us women are all different. We all don’t have perfect private parts obviously, but it’s mainly up to ourselves to accept that.
And if a guy gets scared off because of something as ridiculously childish as that, then he doesn’t deserve you and isn’t ready for you.
We are human beings. No one is perfect. Everyone is different. Accept your flaws and insecurities, as someone else out there will, too.